relationship turmoil

This is a hard time for couples.  Each of us is evolving so quickly that the old ways of being together no longer satisfy.  It’s understandable to take these changes personally even though they are connected to, and part of, a universal transformation.  Our relationships are being called to rise to a new level of consciousness where we come together offering our love rather than seeking it; where our choice for being together  comes from the joy of each other’s company and not to fill a lack that we imagine we have inside.  We are learning that relationships based on ego (who we thought we were) lead only to suffering.  We are learning, sometimes the hard way, to let our past and expectations go, leave our guilt, anger and blame behind us, and find at last, that we, are who we are looking for.